Is My Smut Based on Experience? – Guest Post by Stormy Knight


Phoebe’s bored with her life, except for the occasional verbal foreplay with “Gold Wanger,” aka Collin Ramsey, the hunky rich man who is always in her office seeking a settlement with his latest girlfriend. Her two friends are just as bored and similarly unattached and underappreciated. Yet, they can’t afford to be too forward and ruin their daytime images in well-paying jobs. But what’s wrong with really changing up their appearances with wigs, risqué fashion and becoming lustful ladies at night?

Dressed in hot disguises, the ladies hit the new city hotspot to find some action. They hadn’t counted on kidnapping and murder.

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Is My Smut Based on Experience?
By Stormy Knight

If you doubt anyone would ask an erotica author such a question, think again. Into the life of every such author shall fall at least one clueless reader with pointed questions. Many non-erotica fans will also say erotica and erotic romance are porn. Here’s my position on both views: whether something is smut, porn or erotica/erotic romance rests, in part, on the perception of the person. However, from the most unbiased view I can muster, I will add that it depends on the story and the emotional investment of the characters.

I believe erotica and erotic romance evoke visions of a story with a plot that piques a reader’s sexual interest by emotionally connecting that person to the characters and their situation. In other words, through the use of more than the graphical description of genital contact, the writer arouses the reader. Her tools include meaningful external and internal dialogue, full exploration of all the senses, and a well-paced story that leads to a satisfying conclusion. Whether the conclusion is a happily-for-now or a happily-ever-after scenario can depend on the erotica vs. erotic romance moniker. The latter term is most often associated with a true romance and not just a meeting between two people for sexual fulfillment.

Now, back to the original question, phrased more diplomatically: is my writing based on experience?  Yes and no. Gotcha! Still, that is the truth. Sure, a lot of the sex scenes have elements of sex I have tried and situations in which I have found myself. That would shock many people who know me, as my sexual life has always been a private matter. I write just as many things, though, that have never happened to me. A lot of them are based on fantasies I have and yet others are based on fantasies I know readers prefer. Erotica is largely about satisfying fantasies, and they don’t always have to be true.

Based on my own experience, I can confess that I have been solely in single male/female relationships. However, I know people who participated  in or have been approached about threesomes, many who work as professional white collar workers. As remarkable as some of the situations I describe in my works may seem, many are told where the fictional events bear a strong likeness to real trysts.  Just as many don’t, but even when I write a scenario purely from my imagination, I frequently discover, when discussing it with a close friend or relative, that she has really done what I wrote about. Who knew? Plus, her actual escapade was far kinkier than what I dreamed up.

When all is said and done, this is what I know to be true:
No two people are turned on by exactly the same thing.
No matter how kinky the situation, someone has probably done it and/or craves reading about it.
A writer will appeal to the masses when writing erotica, especially if its ménage, male/male or female/female relationships, and BDSM.

So tell me, had any good fantasies lately?

Stormy Knight is a true southern girl: sweet, sassy and oh so sexy behind closed doors. At her core, she is a child of the winds and the water, loving the warm climates. Partial to the ocean, she has spent many hours on the beach and piers of The Outer Banks, Fort Pierce and Fort Myers, Florida, but her heart still bleeds Carolina Blue. Her most recent releases from  include All for Lust, One Good Lay and Steaming Up. . In Texas but her heart still bleeds Carolina Blue.


  1. Thanks for the post Stormy. Love the name BTW! Can’t wait to dive into your series.

    As far as fantasies go *blushes* I can’t say. But thank you for sparking the imagination and providing us with some shift worthy stories!

  2. Being with two guys would be fun. I have read about it in book, different scenes and think that would be fun to do. I could think of a few characters out of books that would love to have join me.

  3. Just wanted to say thank you to Stormy for being here today! I loved the post! I have to agree with Chris, being with two guys would be fun…if those two guys were Ryan Reynolds and David Boreanaz that would be even better 😉

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